ok so this is how it goes, when i met my boyfriend almost 2 years ago, he did everything to make me happy.He brought me flowers all the time (occasion or not) , we could just sit there and talk for hours. i had just moved so i dint know much of what was around so he took me places and promised to take me to others.
He played a lot of World of Warcraft a few month in our relationship, i dint mind it at first because we have our own lives to live. the problem is for the last few months he played everyday, up to 8 hours a day or more excluding the 4 days every 2 weeks he works. Well while hes at work cuz first thing he does when he walks in the door is open his laptop to play.
i was talking to his mother about it and she was like talk to him about it or delete it and say u dont know what happened. i did the talking part but he started saying i was telling him what to do. i just want him to play less and maybe put a movie with me once a week and maybe a walk or two by the river.
i dint delete the game, i felt it was a lame move and hed just get mad at me. well not that i had to cuz our cat spilled his cup of juice all over his laptop and fried it. not that this is good cuz its expensive but i though well now hell have time for me cuz he doesn’t have a comp. instead he started playing game on his xbox360 and is very short tempered with me. he even said that when his mother brings him his installment disks that he’d put it on my laptop and keep playing.
how can i make him spend more time with me without him saying i want to control him?
uhm we do play guitar hero im alot better then him yay me!! lol.
my problem isint him playing the game its that there is more to life then sitting around playing games. this is definetly not a JELOUSY issue. the problem is hes only recently started putting the game before everything. like going up to see his familly, if he has a raid (wich is with a group of online players at a certain time) he wont go spend time with his own familly. he knows a guy that was left by his fiancee for this problem and assures me he doesint want me to leave. but a girl needs at least a bit of attention from her guy. if i dint want to spend time with him id just stay single and fill my needs somewhere else. i have nothing against gaming, i like playing video games just as much as him. but i play on my free time after everything is done.
He is not a real boyfriend. You should be put first in the relationship, espically over some game. Talk to him again, and if he wont put any effort into the relationship, though it may be hard, drop him.
