Sending flowers to turkey for a sad occasion? Plea...

merhaba all, I have a dear boyfriend to me in Turkey who’s family I feel close to as well, and there was a recent death in the family. I found a website which I would love to use to send flowers to the family, called sendflowerstoturkey.com. Has anyone ever tried sending flowers through this website before? And know if they are good? I really want everything to go perfectly.
For the card to go with the flowers, I would very appreciate it if anyone could help me with my translation into Turkish since the family does not speak english, although my boyfriend does,I don’t want to ask him to help translate because I want this to be a surprise for him and the family.

I would like to say something along the lines of :
Dear ____ family,
My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow. I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with always with you. May Allah bless your family and always keep you safe.
With love,

Do you think that will sound good? I want it to sound kind and warm. Any ideas suggestions are greatly appreciated during this tough time, it can be hard to find the right words to say.
Thanks so much everyone.
I feel like adding some more to it to make it a little longer, but I’m not quite sure what to say.

Hello,

Your writing is enough and I liked ..

Transalation:

Sevgili _____ Ailesi,
Kalbim ac?n?z? payla??yor. Kayb?n?z? duydu?um zaman cok üzüldüm. Dü?üncelerim ve dualarim daima sizinle olsun. Allah Rahmet Eylesin, sizi daima korusun.
Sevgilerimle

Advice please. Anyone??

I need ideas of something my youth group and I can do for our youth leader. She is like family to all of us and she would do anything for us. Day or night.
Her birthday is comming up and we want to do something for her. There are only 4 of us.

THINGS ABOUT HER:
1) she is 40 something
2) she likes flowers, but she always gets flowers for special occasions
3) she is a very cheery person
There isn’t a spa or anything like that around us. We live in a tiny town. The closest mall is over an hour away.

I’m sure she will enjoy retro music from the 80′s. A retro basket full of stuff used in the 80′s along with a CD of the retro music she liked would be perfect for her and bring her good memories to boot. Find out first what genre she liked: rock, soft pop, country, etc. and search on the internet for the billboard hits for the 80′s for that genre and bingo. Or you can ask a common friend which group she loved when she was a teenager. Good luck.

What can I buy my boyfriend of 6 months?

He’s brought me flowers on several occasions and always gets me little things (e.g. CD, strawberries, teddy, etc.) and takes me for meals/cooks.

I never really thought about it properly before but I’ve realised I never really treat him the same – with the sweet gifts he gives me. And I’m feeling pretty guilty!

What could I do or get him to really surprise him and show him how much I like him and appreciate all the sweet little things he does for me…

Buy him some personalized gifts, eg a pen with his name engraved on it. Search for them online, come with delivery service.

What to do about a boyfriend who doesn’t hav...

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. In that time I have been the one to set up the romantic nights, candles, flowers, a picnic, etc. I have relayed to him that I would enjoy a "special" night every once in awhile, or even to recieve flowers on occasion but he cannot seem to get it together and set something up. I am his first serious relationship, his parents were never married, and he is an only child which I’m sure are all contributing factors, but I’m at my wits end here. When I bring it up he always apologizes and says "I know, I’m an a** hole" but nothing changes. I just wonder if I expect too much, or if there could be a better way to get him to think of these things. I have beat around the bush, and practically beat him on the head with my clues and hints but to no avail. (I NEVER nag him about it). Please does anyone have any suggestions?

Focus on the good qualities. If those outweigh the romance thing, then keep him. If his good qualities aren’t so good, get rid of him. People don’t change…I would just try alot of positive reinforcement for any little thing that even resembles romance. Go on and on about how wonderful and sweet that he remembered to pick up a loaf of bread on the way home (for example). Maybe he will slowly improve and graduate to flowers.

Do you think using black roses in your wedding is ...

For our wedding my fiancee wants black roses for all the flowers(bouqets and everything). She wants to get the tinted ones -link in the link below- not the Bacarra ones. When she told out families they said that she should go with white or some other bright,happy,spring like color because it’s a wedding not a funeral. When they couldn’t talk her out of it they said that having black roses at such a happy occasion such as a wedding is "just plain evil". I don’t really care. I’m not into flowers and I’d rather have black than any other color because I like black. I also want her to be happy about everything involved with our day but I’ve been thinking of maybe trying to talk her into the dark red ones instead -second link below-. What do you think? The wedding’s going to take place during the winter.

http://www.fiftyflowers.com/product/Black-Roses-Tinted_42.htm?a_aid=bbr

http://www.fiftyflowers.com/product/Black-Bacarra-Red-Rose_314.htm?a_aid=bbr

Okay. Black is a color. It’s no more "evil" than any other color.

Now, personally? I would not use black roses. I like bright cheery colors. But, I would not automatically be freaked out if I saw someone had black roses at their wedding.

If I may ask, what is the color scheme? If black roses match best then go with it. I personally like the dark red ones better than the black ones, the dark red ones actually look really elegant and dramatic in a beautiful way. The black ones are just… Black. Nothing really interesting about them. But it’s up to you and your wife-to-be!

Good luck, and don’t let anyone dictate what YOUR wedding should be like!

Can Rough Sex and Love Coexist?

Can someone beat and hurt you with rough sex and still love you? I honestly believe he loves me, but when we get rough, it’s really rough. He ties me up, blindfolds me, gags me, hits and spanks me so hard that I am badly bruised. Sometimes he spanks me so hard that the bruises take weeks to go away (the bruises are never visible when I have clothes on though). We’ve even been so rough and broken the bed on two occasions. If he does stuff that hurts, like ramming a ‘toy’ up my bottom, I fight him off and try to get away, but that’s when he pulls my hair and forces me down and hits me on the back. He also calls me all kinds of names. It’s like he really gets off on hurting me and hearing me scream and begging him to stop. We have a safe word to use if gets too intense for me. I’ve never used the safe word because so far I’ve been able to take whatever he gives me. I love how he gets off on it. It does hurt a lot though. Last night it was so rough that I was crying at one point and when he realized it, it just got worse. It’s so nasty that I can’t get into it here. Suffice it to say that whatever you might imagine is probably what happened. We did not start out have rough sex in our relationship, but over time, it’s just evolved (it started with spanking, then went to tying me up and now it’s full blown total roughness). We’ve done it like 3 or 4 times over the course of a year and a half and it’s been fairly recent that it started (maybe 4 or 5 months ago).

If I were to be that rough with someone, I think I’d feel bad afterward. He never says he feels bad or that he’s sorry afterward and he never ever treats me badly outside of bed. We cuddle and spend quality time together after. It’s not rough every time we have sex either, just some of the time.

He’s such a nice guy other than that. No one would never ever guess he does that stuff. He’s such a gentleman, always opens doors for me, brings me flowers all the time, buys expensive gifts, always makes sure I am satisfied first before the rough stuff starts. We have so much fun out of bed, too. And we get along very well. I love him beyond belief but just can’t help but wonder if that is normal or am I kidding myself that he loves me.

I am obviously fairly new to the rough sex thing and he’s the only one I’ve ever done it with. I can’t talk to anyone in person about this because I don’t know if I am a freak to let him do that to me and I don’t want my friends to know about it. Maybe I need to talk to a sex therapist. (ha, just realized therapist decomposed to two words is “the rapist”).

Please don’t judge me; all I’m looking for is input from others that have done this or have had it done to them. Just wondering what makes a guy get off on that rough rape, hair pulling, slapping and spanking stuff if he really loves the person.

If any of you have been through the same thing please share your knowledge. If one of the men that like doing this type of rough sex could provide some thoughts on it from a mans perspective. I would really appreciate it.

Please don’t answer if you have no clue about this stuff or haven’t done it. I’m looking for real answers here.
Thanks to you who have already answered. BTW, I’m not saying I don’t like it rough. The question is really about can someone do this and actually love the person. Is this type of thing just a normal fetish between two consenting adults? Is it common? It’s not like we just met or anything, we’ve been together for a year and a half.
Thanks again.

He knows he is hurting you. Outside of sex he is trying to look like a good person to others.But if he knows he is hurting you and you don’t like it.FUCK HIM