am i doing the right thing? kinda long plz help?

Ok so ive know this girl for 4 years, we started dating 3 months ago, the first month was the best ever, it was intense and romantic, the last 2 months she stared being withdrawn and distant, and recently she started talking to me less and less, until i emailed her a long message on the problem, a week later she stopped talking to me completely for 3 days, until she emailed me saying that she thought about it and said she thinks she needs a break and that she was going to get back at me in a few days.

the thing is that sometimes she is cold and mean, and i really love her and i put up with it because shes gone through some hard times and some things are understandable for her behavior,
is this really just a break? I treat her with respect and like a real lady, im really thoughtful and do little things for her every chance i get, i also really romantic and honest. i support her in everything she likes, I tell her shes beautiful instead of sexy, i open doors and pull up chairs, give flowers on special occasions and even had something special planned for her birthday, I’m a musician and shes given me more inspiration for music.

but i feel that right now her friends are more important than me because shes started hanging out with them more, but the thing is that since the break i feel that shes acting like we never even met and like she doesnt love me anymore, i started to go out more with my friends as well and im even going to a club with her brother, i dont want to beg her to come back, but if she dosent want to be with me i just want to know, is this really just a break? is what im doing the right thing to do? i dont want her to think i want to let her go, but i dont want to be home all day depressed either, please help
P.S. were both 18 years old, im 18 but im really mature for my age, alot of girls follow me around, but its hard for me to fall for just any girl, this girl is really special to me and i would do absolutely anything to win her back, asking her to come does sound like a good idea but i know it will make it worse, so im really confused on what to do

well first of all, this girl is craaaazy for letting you go. you seem like a great guy and i know that you love her but NO ONE deserves to be treated like a door mat. maybe she started to feel that she could walk all over you and do whatever she wants and will know that you are still there waiting. i know that you feel depressed and that it’s hard but the best thing for you to do right now is to go and hangout with friends and just live life. don’t make excuses for her behavior. how old are you?

What is this flower called.?

Can you please tell me what this flowers is called i dont need the scientific name or anything just the common name. thank you!

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valentines day gift for an unromantic guy?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a few months. I am 16 and he’s 17. I’m the kind of girl that likes romance…even if it’s sorta corny. He hates all that kind of thing…typical teenage guy, right? I’m fine with it in general, but I wish that just this one day a year he would do something romantic. He’ll probably get me flowers of chocolates…which of course I appreciate, but neither really show he knows me . My real question is what sort of thing should I get him for valentines day? (I feel like I have to get him something, even though he hates the occasion)

Also, should I force him to do something romantic with me, or just let it go and let him be all pissy at the world? (he’s the type that hates it when too many people are happy at one time)

Thanks

Gift certificate at his favorite electronics, music, book, etc. store…

Why do girls my age seem to be attracted to the co...

I just don’t understand it. Most of the girls in my school are attracted to arrogant guys who treat them like crap. I’ve never found those sorts of guys attractive at all, and I’m not just saying that either. I have always found myself more interested in the shy, sweet, intelligent types. I want a kind boy who’d treat me with respect, who’d remember little things like opening doors or giving me flowers on special occasions. I want someone who I can hug, cuddle, and kiss on the cheek. Is it abnormal for a 17 year old to think the way I do? Not that I care whether I’m different from everyone else, but I’ve never understood why show-offs are more attractive.

Honestly, you are more mature than them!
One day those girls will wake up and regret that they went from guy to guy when they were younger and never had a serious relationship.It will be harder for those girls to get into a relationship because guys will know their past.
I think that deep down, every girl wants what you want, some girls just covert up.

My girlfriend didn’t give me a X-mas gift. I...

its about 3 weeks into January, i know that this question is a little late, but here is the situation:

before Christmas, we asked each other if we wanted to do Christmas or take the money and go on a adventure/trip? I said the Trip initially, but a few days later i told her that I’m going to buy her a present in addition to the Trip. fast forward a about a 2 weeks, its a few days before Christmas i got my girl friend two gifts and i spread them out, one before Christmas, then she goes to California to visit her family for a few days, then i gave her one gifts when she got back. At the time i felt great just giving her the gift. I would normally buy her things when ever i saw them and i thought she would like or look good in. about 2 weeks in to January, emotional i got a little up set, i talked to her and let her know how i felt, she agreed and felt like she "really bad" that she didn’t get me anything. and told me she meant to but She was in California, and that she was a busy, and some other reasoning. But i said " it is what it is." and we talked and i felt OKabout all of it.

i thought the emotion was over but our 1year anniversary is coming up soon and i just can’t justify or bring myself to buy her ANYTHING. I know i should just because of the occasion like some Flowers). but my mind and my heart are saying: "NOPE, shes doesn’t deserve any gift or ANYTHING! "

Logically i know that this is a partly childish on my part, but it doesn’t stop how i feel. I’m still in love with her. I know Christmas is not about presents, and we are both in good careers, we aren’t strapped for cash. i want to be emotionally happy for our 1st anniversary. I’m not looking for quick fixes, just any incite or any advice.

If you expect it, it’s not a gift, but tribute. If you demand reciprocation, it’s not a gift but a trade. Mature relationships don’t keep score like that.

She’ll probably make it up to you if you get over it. Get her something. She’ll probably make her previous lapse up to you.

Can you find any errors?

I wrote a descriptive essay on a cemetery, there is NO grammatical errors allowed.

In the midst of a busy city overrun with preoccupied men and women going about their daily tasks, some are chatting away nonchalantly walking along the congested city, while others eagerly rush through crowds to reach their destination, there is a vast open space abandoned by society, where only on certain occasions do people dare venture into this barren and uncharted land. I stood there pulling my jacket close to my body because of the chilly breeze that I was so unaccustomed to feeling and maybe more so for security because of the eeriness that reverberated off the cemetery. The golden rays of light seemed to be absent and a distant hue of color was what took the sun‘s place. The grass seemed to thrive in these conditions. It was a dark and luscious green covered in droplets of dew, the grass seem more natural than usual, as if the decaying bodies provided a fertilizer like no other innovation could. The smell of earth dripping off of every atom in the air and landing directly below my nose, a smell so fresh I could almost taste the green.
The scenery was picturesque as if an artist took his finger and with careful delicacy created a masterpiece. The finishing touches were the rows upon rows of moonlight gray obelisks. These gravestones connected with the soil below them, as if they were a plant that grew naturally from a seed and protruded out with gracious dignity. The smooth writing that was purposely made to stand out, etched upon each tombstone gave a meaning to every patch of grass. These gravestones did not converse with me, nor did they argue. Instead they stood straight, at attention, and although they were badly beaten by the undulating nature of the weather they were adamant to move.
The cemetery was decorated with beautiful bouquets of all sizes. Some were outrageous, with the only serving purpose of attracting attention to their ostentatious palette of vivid colors. Others much more modest consisted of velvet burgundy roses, perfectly placed on the tombstone. All these flowers assimilated into the nature of the cemetery. When ever the sun refused to shine the flowers provided light and radiance for the tombstones of the once living.

In the midst of a busy, congested city, preoccupied men and women go about their daily tasks. Some are chatting away nonchalantly, while others eagerly rush to reach their destination.

There is a vast and barren open space abandoned by society. This is where I am standing, pulling my jacket close to my body. A chilly breeze surrounds me partly because I feel a lack of security and an eeriness that reverberates throughout the cemetery.

Golden rays of light are absent, and a distant hue of color precedes twilight time. Still, under my feet, the grass has seemingly thrived even though it is dark. I see a dark and luscious green covered in droplets of dew. The grass as a matter of fact, seemed more alive, as if the decaying bodies provided a fertilizer like no other innovation could.

There is a pungent smell of earth dripping off of every atom in the air. It has landed directly below my nose. I can almost taste the green.

The scenery was picturesque; it was as if an artist took his finger and with careful delicacy, created a masterpiece.

The finishing touches were the rows upon rows of moonlight gray obelisks. I stood in awe, as these gravestones connected with the soil below them. It was as though each of them were a plant that grew naturally from a seed and protruded out with gracious dignity. Etched upon each tombstone, the smooth writing appeared as if words and dates and etchings were purposely to made to stand out amongst every patch of grass.

These gravestones did not converse with me, nor did they argue. Instead they stood straight, at attention, and although they were badly beaten by the undulating nature of the weather, THEY WERE ADAMANT THAT THEY WOULD NOT MOVE..

The cemetery was decorated with beautiful bouquets of all sizes. On other days, I had remembered seeing them also. Some were outrageous, with the only serving purpose of attracting attention to their ostentatious palette of vivid colors. Others, much more modest ,consisted of velvet burgundy roses, perfectly placed on the tombstone. All these flowers assimilated into the nature of the cemetery.

I was heartened to know that whenever the sun refused to shine, the flowers provided light and radiance for the tombstones of the once living.

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some of your sentences were too long. However, I understood what you were trying to say. Try to shorten sentences and read over what you write. I found you were somewhat repetitive.But you are a good writer.

Good luck.