Here are a few things I do to fuel my 22 year marriage. (1) On a nice night, get a blanket and pillows and lay in the bed of a truck or grass and stargaze. (2) Call your wife and tell her you just wanted to hear her voice. (3) Write her e-mails "naughty AND nice" (4) Don’t wait for a special occasion to buy her a greeting card or flowers. (5) Give her a full body massage with KY oil and DON’T FORGET THE FEET! (6) Hold her face in your hands at least once a day, look deep into her eyes and tell her how beautiful she is and that you love her. (7) Take her on a weekend vacation to a hotel with a jacuzzi. Use candles and silk rose petals to enhance the mood. (8) Drizzle her with chocolate and don’t worry about the mess! Women love to be romanced it’s not always just about sex. If you want to keep your marriage affair proof, you have to use your imagination. It’s also fun to see her reaction to the surprises that you can come up with. GOOD LUCK
I think i just fell in love with you
HA HA – JK
Your wife is a lucky woman! Have a great day
I agree, except I do that stuff with hottie I have on the side.
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That is so wonderfully sweet your wife is a very lucky woman
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I think i just fell in love with you
HA HA – JK
Your wife is a lucky woman! Have a great day
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Very wise words, it took me many years of trial and error to finally get it right. I agree with everything you wrote.
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Your wife is lucky to have you around… can I give you my hubby’s # so you can fill him in on how to be the perfect husband??…lol
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To all men who have wife trouble, the truth is women want men to spend money on them. Buy her things and take her out. Married for 10 years
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Someone needs to clone or bottle you….because you are one in a million.
Been married for almost 27 years now…the flame has been out for about 25 of those.
I am the one that is trying to keep things going; naughty emails, massages, fun ideas for the two of us to do. If just gets rough when all this trying gets pushed aside over and over again.
Wishing my hubby was 1/10 of your intimacy and sexual level. Maybe I would have some happiness.
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get real–sounds like u watch too many soap operas!
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I do most of that with my GF, not my wife..lol..
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I agree.. the real trick is to do 1/2 of those with kids… I know, find a babysitter, but that is not always easy…
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You have the idea and amen brother!
Way to many guys think that buying something on Valentines day is enough. Or if a birth day or holiday is coming up they rush out the day before and buy something……. not something that even if it was small shows that you truly understand her. Many just get into a rut and are unwilling to think outside of the box. They take all for granted.
You are correct….. many guys complain that their marriage blows and their wife does not understand them. Sure it works both ways but I think 9 times out of 10 if a husband just did something unexpected once in a while all would be well.
Its guys like you and I who get the concept.
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Good try, but you fell slightly short on
1) blanket – pillows and lay in the bed of a truck and stargaze.
. . . . . .Don’t forget the mosquito spray and watch out for the falling bat poop ! ! !
(2) Call your wife and tell her you just wanted to hear her voice.
Translation. . . . . Just checking up on ya. . . . .and oh ya, don’t meant ion that "we are out of milk and bread, so could you stop at the store on the way home."
(3) Write her e-mails "naughty AND nice"
. . . . Translation: again, just checking up to see if you are at your desk like you are supposed to be. . . . and oh ya, we are out of milk and bread, so could you stop at the store on the way home."
(4) Don’t wait for a special occasion to buy her a greeting card or flowers.
. . . . . Translation: ‘I’m sorry. . .you don’t know what I’m sorry about. . . or I have nothing to be sorry about . . . . just put this on my account for next time I screw up . . . and there will be a next time."
(5) Give her a full body massage with KY oil and DON’T FORGET THE FEET!
. . . . Oh ya, all women love to feel like a slippery seal, oh ya, and who has to do the laundry to take care of this oily mess, may I ask. . . . .
(6) Hold her face in your hands at least once a day, look deep into her eyes and tell her how beautiful she is and that you love her.
. . . . . followed by a pat on the head. . . . ya, that will make her feel like a ‘good little girl"
(7) Take her on a weekend vacation to a hotel with a Jacuzzi. Use candles and silk rose petals to enhance the mood.
. . . . . Straight out of the text book. . . . careful, your wife is starting to think your having an affair and will be calling and emailing YOU all day, everyday. . . . .
(8) Drizzle her with chocolate and don’t worry about the mess!
. . . . . Of course you don’t have to worry about the mess. . . . she’ll be the one that has to clean it up. . . . And chocolate? Yuk! what a bout ants. . . No way, No way!
Women love to be romanced it’s not always just about sex.
. . . . .wrong again, sometimes it is all about sex! Never, never , never assume you know more about women then the women themselves know.
If you want to keep your marriage affair proof, you have to use your imagination.
. . . . . The people whom have affair are the people that have imagination! ! ! ! ! ! Not the ones that are living with those with it.
It’s also fun to see her reaction to the surprises that you can come up with.
. . . . .Text book, each and everyone of these ideas.
those that you forgot. . . .
*Leave an "I love you note on you pillow saying . . . . . I can’t wait for tonight. .
* Text her a quick note . . . . Dinner is on me tonight. . . .Then shop, prepare and serve!
*rather then a body massage, after dinner draw her a bath, include the current book – magi or music she is interested in and leave her alone while you clean up the kitchen.
* send her on a spa weekend alone or with other ‘girl friends’
*Saturday morning . . . take her car to be detailed and the tank filled.
* Rather then always saying she is ‘beautiful’ . . . . . tell her that you see everything she does, more importantly, tell her you appreciate her for it.
GOOD LUCK
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Here’s how these things went with my wife:
"chocolate is for other things."
1) "eww…too many bugs"
2) "yeah, OK, hear me."
3) ….we divorced before we had email…
4) "why did you buy me this? why did you spend the money?"
5) I massaged her often…she massaged her boyfriend.
6) "let go of me"
7) "why go to a hotel, that just costs money"
I’m glad it is working for you. But my wife was didn’t have an ounce of romance in her. And she didn’t appreciate me romancing her. Each relationship is different. I’m glad yours is working for you. Mine? Married 17 years, divorced 14.
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Mmmmm….I see if it work
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